Getting a deeper, crisper timber in your voice can have a positive impact on your life. After all, life is mostly dependent on social interaction, and having a light, thin voice in a man especially, can not only be embarrassing, but socially ineffective, so here are a few tips.

1) Relax, before speaking, make sure you are relaxed. Many people who fail to have a deep crisp voice simply don’t remember to relax and that anxiety is translated into stress elements in the vocal chords. So ideally, you will always remember to think before making any words. This is a small point, because there are several reasons why the voice is strained or high pitched, but it is definitely worth keeping in mind because, even if you say nothing, sometimes it is more powerful than speaking up in a squeaky voice.

2) Eye contact gives you confidence, so always remember to make eye contact when speaking. A lack of confidence socially can lead to awkward sounding voice inflections. When your confidence is high, typically your voice will lower because you feel a greater sense of self control. This comes with good body posture, head up, and of course vocal timber control.

3) Be assertive. Not aggressive, many people confuse assertiveness with aggression. Assertiveness is controlled aggression and it is designed to give you control of your social environment. Showing assertive qualities is not always wise, depending on what the social environment is, however, being assertive approximately 10% of your social time helps allow for confidence to build, others in you and you in yourself.

When you think about it, voice control is simply a matter of muscle memory and that can easily be learned. The thing about having an inconsistent voice or a high pitched voice, is that it eats into our social power. People just seem to trust men with a reassuringly deep crisp voice.

Developing a sense for how your voice feels and creating that same environment whenever you need it, you can easily gain that skill and enjoy the status of having a sincere sounding crisp speaking voice. Much of it has to do with inner confidence, but ultimately it is a mechanical muscle thing.

Many men, afflicted with this condition often report that their voice is typically nice and deep in the mornings after a good nights sleep and this is particularly interesting and a clue. Stress elements creep into the muscle group responsible for creating that raw sound, that the mouth uses to shape into words and sentences. These stress elements are created because of the types of muscle memories you associate with your daily interactions.

It is no surprise to hear men with this condition, lose all symptoms and become deep crisp sounding talkers the minute they touch down on their holiday destination and leave the environment that created these stress elements. Unless you have a medical reason for this condition, you can quite easily over come it with a few simple exercises and techniques. The one thing you do need however is to recover your social power and develop that muscular control and confidence.

Much has been written and speculated about what women want. It surprises me that somebody just didn’t think of asking one, but then, what would she know, they don’t know what it is they want themselves.

Seducing a woman is one of the most hotly talked about topics on the internet (obviously in male communities) and the “being a jerk” theory seems to be getting a lot of heads nodding. The idea is that women seem to be seduced by certain types of men, the “jerk” types, that disregard them and show no real interest in them.

I don’t know if this is true or not, but I have met a lot of jerks that couldn’t meet a woman at a wall to wall women fest. My own theories are a little more practical however.

I think the one thing most women crave in a man is social power. The idea of targeting a man that has animal and political gravity in a group is not only more likely to be the alpha male, but also would be the one the most attractive girls in the group would pine over.

The quickest and most effective way to demonstrate and receive unchallenged social power is by having a deep and crisp speaking voice. The two things you must have from a group to have the most social power is for them to like you and for them to trust you. This is why, with a little deep voice training, nearly any man in any group can become counted as one of the top level guys that is sought after. Just my thoughts.