Posted on 27 December 2011
The truth is finally out. Experts all over the internet have been speculating on why women are seduced by some men and not others and now, for the first time, the truth is out. I have read theories ranging from women prefer guys that disregard and disrespect them by treating them like a jerk, to other factors like your sex quotient and other such follies.
The truth is women want social power in a man. These experts talk about being a “player” and playing complicated games with womens emotions by letting them witness other women talking to you and flirting with you, but the truth is… women are not stupid. Women are not going to fall for such complicated nonsense in a million Sundays!
Power is the universal aphrodisiac. I am sure everyone has heard of this phrase. Power in a man is sexy to a woman, social power is what separates the men from the boys. The ideal and quickest way to demonstrate that social power and even create it is by having a deep crisp voice.
Looks don’t matter, size (sort of) doesn’t matter, it depends on which woman you are talking to. But what really does matter, what will always matter is the depth and crispness of your every day speaking voice. The reason why is because a deep voice relaxes a woman and makes her like and trust you. A deep speaking voice is a thing that women respond to because it is hard wired into their evolutionary brains.
Posted on 16 December 2011
Do you have a public speech coming up? If so, then you might need a few tips on how to improve your speaking voice. It may be known to you that the success of a speech, whether it is public or private is also dependent on the quality of your speaking voice. You have to be articulate and your words need to be very clear in order to easily impart the idea of your speech. Every speech is a make or break deal. Since every listener is different, each of them may have a different impression of you. If you would like to learn how to improve your speaking voice, here are a few simple tips to follow.
Keep your throat moist and lubricated by drinking a lot of water. Dryness in your vocal chords may cause straining and produce a grating and guttural voice. This will also help to avoid unnecessary disruptions in your speech.
You also need to practice your lungs to maximize its full capacity. Try breathing from your diaphragm by inhaling deeply and doing long exhales. You can also emphasize your point in your phrases by using your breath. At the end of every phrase, do remember to take a breath so as to avoid untimely pauses during your speech. This can also help your listeners take in the messages in every statement that you make.
Try to have a well-modulated voice when speaking. Try to be aware if you are speaking too softly or loudly. You can also ask your listeners for their feedbacks regarding how well your volume is. Always keep your speech to a moderate pace. Do not speak too quickly because your listeners will not be able to absorb the idea of your speech. Speaking too slowly on the other hand will cause the listeners to be bored and lose interest in what you are trying to say. With a little help, you’ll know how to improve your speaking voice in no time at all!
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